Supporting your loved one who has heart disease is incredibly challenging. It’s not only about offering them physical care and comfort, but also emotional and mental strength. In fact, heart disease doesn’t need only the patient to be emotionally and mentally strengthened, but rather the whole family and friends as well. You can help guide your loved one through this tough journey by sharing practical, emotional, and constant support. Today, I am going to walk you through eight strong yet simple ways to be there for someone battling heart disease.
1. Make Lifestyle Changes Together
When diagnosed with heart disease, the afflicted person must start making lifestyle changes. There are various changes that a person may undergo such as diet change, an exercise routine, quitting smoking, and sometimes reduction of alcohol intake. The best way to help him/her is by making these changes too. Healthy habits make it easier for the diagnosed to maintain new routines as well as show solidarity.
For example, to maintain a healthy heart diet, cook and prepare meals together that incorporate vegetables, fruits, lean meats, and legumes. If they’re supposed to be more active, resolve to walk a little bit every day or practice yoga activity that’s low-impact. This kind of support fosters the feeling of teamwork and makes this healthier lifestyle change less daunting.
2. Emotional Support Instead of Physical Support
Heart disease can also cause psychological effects on the body and mind. Most patients are anxious, depressed, or frustrated in their struggle to accept their situation. In such moments, emotional care is as important as physical care.
Listen to what they have to say without judgment, and unless it’s asked for, avoid offering solutions. Sometimes, just having you there is the best thing you can do. Ask open-ended questions that encourage them to talk about their feelings. For instance, instead of asking, “How are you feeling today?”, ask, “What has been on your mind lately?” This way, you kind of give them room to share what’s really going on without making them feel pressured.
Further, you have to be in harmony with your emotions. Heart disease draws not only the patient but also all the supporters of that patient’s life. It is alright to move some days around feeling overwhelmed, but if you can hold up control over your emotions then you are going to stay on focus of being the best supporting person possible.
3. Learn About Their Condition
There are ways to support someone dealing with heart disease, but perhaps nothing is stronger than simply becoming informed. Knowing the specifics of their condition from coronary artery disease, to arrhythmias, to heart failure helps you better understand how to assist them in managing symptoms and adhering to treatment plans.
Do some research on general symptoms, treatments, and recovery processes. Ride with them to doctor visits if they are comfortable doing so, and never hesitate to ask the doctor any questions they might have.
Knowing the condition well will be your source of strength in being able to offer some real support and formulate preparations of what their needs might be and to ease the tensions of the unknown a little bit.
4. Support their stress management strategies
Stress has often been termed as the leading cause of heart disease, with most of the patients being unable to control it after a diagnosis. Encourage your loved one to take up stress-reducing activities like meditation, deep breathing exercises, and any other hobby that helps him/her relax. You could even take up the idea of the “Relaxation Response,” coined by Dr. Herbert Benson, a technique that includes deep breathing and mindfulness to counteract the effects of stress.
It requires 15–30 minutes of practice every day on relaxing techniques that help reduce anxiety, lower blood pressure, and otherwise improve heart health. Share with them activities in which they take particular interest, such as reading, listening to music, or merely spending time outdoors.
5. Be an Accountability Partner
For a person suffering from heart disease, such huge responsibilities waiting for them include medication, going to the doctor, and changing their lifestyle. One of the easiest ways through which a caregiver could help in support is by keeping them organized as well as keeping them responsible.
That schedule can include reminders to take medicines, visits to the doctors, or even mere exercises done for the day. Do not be very demanding on them, but just help them find a schedule that they should follow. This way, with the tracking of those, some of the burden is off their shoulders, and a thought process about recovery gets an easy way forward in the minds of your loved one.
6. Encourage Active Life
Exercise is a major part of recovery from heart disease, but it can be intimidating for an individual who is not accustomed to regular physical activity or is still adjusting to the diagnosis. You can encourage your loved one to start with gentle exercise for their heart health by finding ways to help him/her fit in his routine, rather than forcing him into physical activity that he detests.
Some low-impact yet very effective ones include walking, swimming, and the use of a recumbent bike. The latter could prove to be particularly helpful for patients with arthritis, balance issues, or back pain. Join them when possible to encourage them in this regard, and make it a bonding activity. Simple things like a daily walk can go a long way in terms of reaping benefits in physical health and emotional well-being.
7. Be Happy with Their Emotional Victories
Recovery from coronary artery disease does not only comprise physical victories like lowering blood pressure or cholesterol, but it also contains emotional victories like overcoming fear or stress. Respect these no matter how small they may be. Did she make it through one week without getting overwhelmed by her diagnosis? Did he make it through three days of following the exercise regimen? Whatever it is, acknowledge them for those achievements and commend them for staying strong.
Self-esteem boosts among them will be confirmed through reinforcements, which encourage them to continue pushing on. Progress is more than just numbers on a chart and often reminds them of that.
8. Respect Their Independence
As much as you want to help, as much as it hurts, you also need to respect the independence of a loved one because heart disease strips people of control over their lives in addition to any other thing they know about themselves. Giving them time and space to make decisions about whatever matters most to them treatment options, diet choices, or physical activities give them a chance to reassert some of that control in whatever way they can.
Rather than telling them what you want to do, tell them how you could be helpful by asking, “How can I help you today?” or “What do you feel comfortable doing right now?” This empowers them rather than making them feel like they are being smothered under one’s good intentions but overwhelming assistance.
Final Thoughts
I support a loved one with heart disease, which is so much more than just managing their health as a physical being-it is supporting them emotionally, being informed, and malleable. Every little step simple as taking a few turns around the block, cooking up a healthy meal with heart, or silently sitting beside them-does the trick, changing the world.
Heart disease is not only a severe but life-altering condition. However, your support can help lighten the burden. It’s about empathy, education, and a little bit of shared responsibility. You can play a very important role in their journey to recovery, making the road ahead less daunting. Not to be perfect, but to be present and consistent. You can walk through this journey with hope, strength, and resilience.
FAQs
Q. I want to support a family member who suffers from heart disease, but I do not want to choke them. How can I do that?
A. Strike a balance between support and independence. For example, you should respect their wish allow them to make decisions about their health, and only intervene when they require your support.
Q. Does stress cause heart disease?
A. Absolutely, as stress may cause heart disease. Stress management through relaxation techniques and emotional support is essential for heart patients.
Q. How can I be a role model to my loved one and encourage a healthier lifestyle?
A. Be a good role model and make them associate with your healthy routine. It should become a mutual benefit and something good for both of you-a healthy lifestyle.
Q. Can heart disease be completely prevented?
A. While some risk factors for heart disease cannot be changed, a healthy lifestyle has significantly reduced the probability of getting heart disease.
Q. Where could I go to access additional education and resources to support heart disease patients and their loved ones?
A. Many organizations, for example, offer free materials online, forums for support, and educational opportunities for both heart disease patients and their loved ones.